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Dog Separation Anxiety Problems

Together we can help your dog to feel safe and overcome their separation anxiety

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Does your dog have separation anxiety? Do they appear distressed when left alone? Dog separation anxiety problems can be a challenging issue for both dogs and their owners. If your dog shows signs like vocalising, restlessness, or destructive behaviour when separated from you, it’s not only upsetting but can also strain your relationship. Whether it’s when you’re leaving for work or stepping out for a short errand, the anxiety your dog experiences can make it hard to enjoy peace of mind.

At Second Nature Behaviour, we understand how difficult it can be to watch your dog struggle with separation anxiety. Our clinical animal behaviourists are here to help with your dog’s separation anxiety problems. By understanding your dog’s emotional needs and identifying the root causes of their anxiety, we can work with you to create a tailored plan to ease their distress. With patience, consistent effort, and professional support, we can help your dog feel more secure and comfortable when left alone, bringing peace to both you and your dog.

Our dog behaviourists travel to your home to support with separation anxiety in and around Birmingham, Stoke-on-Trent, Coventry, Staffordshire, Telford and more. We can also offer our clinical animal behaviour services virtually.

 

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Our dog behaviourist are here to help you with your dog’s separation anxiety problems

We understand how distressing dog separation anxiety problems can be, and we’re here to help. Our team of dog behaviourists are dedicated to helping you create a safe and calming environment for your dog when they’re alone. By closely examining your dog’s daily life, including their interactions, routines, and surroundings, we can identify specific triggers and develop a tailored approach to reduce their anxiety.

Our goal is to not only alleviate the stress causing your dog’s separation anxiety, but also to strengthen your bond. We’ll provide practical strategies to address their needs, reframe how you interact with them, and eliminate stressors that contribute to their feelings of distress.

It’s essential to remember that tackling separation anxiety takes time and consistency. A structured desensitisation plan may also be required to make progress. With ongoing support and lots of patience, we’ll work alongside you to help your dog feel more secure and confident. 

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Examples of dog separation anxiety problems

Here are some examples of dog separation-related behaviour problems we provide support with:

  • Howling, barking or whining when left alone;
  • Destroying furniture or doorways when left alone;
  • Toileting in the house when left alone;
  • Appearing scared, anxious or unsettled when left alone;
  • Not eating when left alone, and
  • You may have received reports from your neighbour about your dog barking when left.

These separation-related behaviour problems may occur when left home alone, when left with certain people, or when your dog is shut in a room alone.

Meet Your Dog Behaviourists

Zoe Demery Clinical Animal Behaviourist

Zoe Demery

Zoe has a doctorate in animal cognition and behaviour, and she is an independently accredited clinical canine behaviourist in the UK (CCAB). She is also a Chartered Member of the British Psychological Society, registered with ABTC, and certified by IAABC as a dog behaviour consultant. Zoe is a proud member of FAB Clinicians. 

Since starting practice in 2012, she has helped hundreds of dogs and their caregivers better understand each other. Zoe also mentors budding dog behaviourists.

Megan Richardson training her dog

Megan Richardson

 Megan graduated from Harper Adams University with a first class BSc (Hons) degree in Animal Behaviour and Welfare, then grew her busy clinical canine behaviour practice.  She has many years of experience and is an independently accredited Certificated Clinical Animal Behaviourist (CCAB)

Megan is an active member of various organisations, including FAB CliniciansAPBC and PACT.  Last but not least Megan is registered as a CAB and ATI with the ABTC. 

If you’re looking for someone to sort out your pet’s behaviour, that you know it’s weird and don’t have a clue why they’re acting like they are, then contact Second Nature.

Zoe has been amazing and gone the extra mile with us. From diagnosing our newfie with anxiety to putting into practice an action plan but above all, always telling us the truth, even if it means saying to us that Nala’s behaviour will take a long time to fix. Zoe has always been there to listen to my worries and to be updated on Nala’s progress.”

Nala and Francesca

Comprehensive support

  • We visit you at your home in person or online, for an initial assessment generally lasting 2 hours and ideally, everyone in the household should be present.
  • We take a full and detailed case history.  Together we work out a treatment plan that is realistic and tailored to you and your dog’s needs.
  • You receive a dog training manual and relevant information sheets, which tie in with the behaviour plan for your dog.
  • Soon after the consultation, a report is sent to you, which is later copied to your vet.  This outlines the reasons behind the problem and highlights the key steps of the plan.
  • Your vet is kept informed of how your dog progresses.
  • Plans are updated with new material for you to work on.
  • Then, you have the option of scheduling two one-hour follow-up sessions, generally about a month apart, either online or in person.
  • We are available for remote support via email and WhatsApp between your sessions with us.
  • If a veterinary behaviourist’s additional expertise is required during the case’s development, we integrate their advice into the plan. We work closely with select, independently accredited dog vet behaviourists, who will review and discuss your dog’s case with your vet.
  • More follow-up support is available as needed.

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Max’s story

Border Terrier

Max, a young Border Terrier, was a rescue dog who had been with his owners for a few months. Max was showing separation-related behaviour, such as howling and barking for the duration of his owners’ departures from the home. Megan from Second Nature Behaviour visited Max and his owners at their home to provide them with a behaviour consultation. After asking Max’s owners lots of questions about Max’s history and background, Megan assessed that Max felt fearful when home alone, along with being a generally anxious individual inside and outside the home. Megan developed a behaviour modification plan for Max’s owners to follow. This included supporting the owners with finding ways to manage their departures to help Max feel relaxed, and developing a training plan for the owners to follow to gradually encourage Max to cope with being left home alone. As a result, after persistence and adherence to the plan, Max’s owners managed to make progress and were able to leave Max home alone for short periods at a time, whilst continuing to gradually leave Max for increasing periods.

Next steps

1. Vet referral

Separation issues are sometimes caused by underlying physiological issues, so we need to address these first

2. Booking

Online or by giving us a call on 0121 299 0188

3. History form

Give us some background about your dog, their environment, routines and your relationship

4. Consultation

Let’s get started on the plan to dealing with your dog’s separation anxiety

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How do I book an appointment?

Contact us for a no obligation chat. After you have been referred by your veterinary surgeon, you can phone us on 0121 299 0188 to discuss the details and costs, or book online here. You can access the referral form here, or your vet can make the referral online here.

How should I go about arranging a vet referral for my dog?

We will send you a referral form to give to your vet. Ask them to look at your dog and fill the form in. You should send this to us prior to the consultation, together with any clinical records that your vet may think are relevant. Alternatively, your vet may like to email, fax (0844 358 3201), or post their records directly to us. Note that they can also fill in their referral online. If you have already spoken to your vet, then this may be sufficient, but please double-check with them. Different vets have different ways of doing things. Some vets charge an extra fee for a referral.

What happens during the consultation?

Consultations are held on an appointment basis, either at one of our regional clinics or in your own home. If possible, all family members involved should be present. A history of the problem will be taken and your dog’s temperament assessed. After this, the clinical animal behaviourist will explain the motivation for the behaviour and devise a treatment programme to help you modify your pet’s behaviour.

What happens after the consultation?

Treatment programmes vary according to the nature and severity of the problem. Sometimes only the initial consultation, remote support and some hard work on your part work are sufficient. Moreover, a detailed report outlining the therapy will be sent to you and your veterinary surgeon. Further advice and aftercare are provided via further sessions and email for at least 3 months. Where treatment dictates it, or if you would prefer face-to-face support, a follow-up appointment can be arranged online.   Alternatively, we can come to your home again.  As a dog owner, we offer extensive face-to-face support following the initial consultation as part of our standard service.

What kind of guarantees can you offer me? What if your suggestions don't work?

We cannot guarantee a ‘cure’ or work miracles, but if between us we can diagnose what is going on, and if you are prepared to work hard, dramatic improvement is not unusual.  The treatment plan is designed to be fluid.  If what we initially suggest doesn’t seem to have much effect, then we will reassess and make some other suggestions about what to do. 

How quickly will we see results? How long will it take to solve the problem?

There is no quick fix to any kind of behaviour problem. The treatment plan advised may produce results very quickly, but often it will take time, effort and commitment from all of the family to produce the improved behaviour. Always remember that your pet’s current problems may have developed over a long period of time, so it may take a particularly long time to improve. It really varies from individual to individual. However, support from us is ongoing, as you need it. Following your consultation, further advice is available by phone and email as you progress, or face-to-face if you require it. Progress is often faster with greater follow-up behaviour support within your own environment.

Why must I seek referral from my vet? I'm sure my dog is perfectly healthy - what's the point?

A strong link between the veterinary surgeon and the animal behaviourist is essential in all cases. In order to rule out any physiological causes for the problem behaviour and in accordance with the Fellowship of Animal Behaviour Clinicians‘ Code of Conduct, we only work on veterinary referral. Behavioural symptoms are often intertwined with some medical conditions. To provide a truly holistic solution to your problem, your vet needs to be involved at all stages of the process. The behaviourist will work closely with your vet, who often provides ongoing support from their end for various elements of the behaviour plan. 

How does the vet referral process work? What do you need from them? Do I have to pay more? My vet just said to give you a call - is that enough?

We will send you a referral form to give to your vet. Ask them to look at your pet and fill the form in. You should send this to us prior to the consultation, together with any clinical records that your vet may think are relevant. Alternatively, your vet may like to email, fax (0844 358 3201), or post their records directly to us. Note that they can also fill in their referral online. If you have already spoken to your vet, then this may be sufficient, but please double-check with them. Different vets have different ways of doing things. Some vets charge an extra fee for a referral.

Are you covered by insurance?

Second Nature Behaviour and our employees are fully covered by professional indemnity and public liability insurance.

Do you offer your services in the evenings or weekends?

We offer limited availability on some weekday evenings and weekends. Please note that appointments are booked on a first-come, first-served basis. To find out more about our availability, you can check our booking calendar or give us a call (0121 299 0188).

What if I need urgent advice and can't wait for your next available consultation?

If you need urgent advice and cannot wait for a behaviour consultation, you can book in a preliminary hour with our senior behaviourist over the phone. This hour is only intended to provide you with first aid, prophylactic management advice to help you and your pet cope until a full assessment is made. To make the most of the limited time in the appointment, we still require a completed behaviour questionnaire. We will expect a completed vet referral, and as always we will keep your vet in the loop about the outcome of our call. As with all our behaviour services, there are no quick fixes. To book, visit our booking page or give us a call (0121 299 0188).

Can you tell me more about the supervised consultation option? How does a 'student behaviourist' differ from a 'senior behaviourist'?

The supervised consultation is led by one of our advanced student behaviourists, supervised by one of our senior behaviourists. A 2-hour consultation and a follow-up session is included – one will be conducted virtually, while the other is in your home or on a local walk. Other students may be virtually ‘sitting in’ via online video link. You also receive a tailor-made behaviour modification plan, plus 3 months’ of email and text follow-up.

A ‘student behaviourist’ is someone who has met the academic requirements, but not yet been assessed on their clinical skills to achieve accreditation as a Certificated Clinical Animal Behaviourist (CCAB) or Clinical Animal Behaviourist (CAB). A ‘senior behaviourist’ has achieved accreditation as a CAB or CCAB.

When would I need a consultation led by a vet behaviourist rather than a Clinical Animal Behaviourist?

A veterinary behaviourist (VB) is more appropriate for cases involving complex medical components. VBs are qualified as both vets and behaviourists, so they have an understanding of how certain medical factors may influence behaviour. VBs can also advise your referring vet directly on specific medical investigations or treatment options – all of which our non-vet behaviourists are not qualified to do.

I have multiple pets with problems within my household – does this mean you’ll charge double?

No, we won’t, although it often brings some complexity to the problem. For instance, if you have two dogs or a dog and a cat, we will charge our standard dog consultation price as we would for just one dog.

Will neutering my dog cure their problem? Should we do this before a behaviour consultation?

This is something that you need to discuss with your vet. Sometimes vets advise that neutering can make the behaviour problem worse, so it would probably be best to wait at least until after the behaviour consultation even if you decide with them to go ahead with it.

Will you tell me if the risks are too great? We are considering rehoming or euthanasia – you are our last hope

It is important to have realistic expectations for what can be achieved.  Behaviour problems take a lot of time and work to improve, sometimes never fully going away.  However, very often at least some management strategies and techniques can be put in place to help with the behaviour. Your behaviourist will be able to discuss the different options with you once they have fully assessed your pet and your situation.  The behaviourist will make a risk assessment as well as provide you with the treatment plan if necessary.

Luke, Harry & Trixie

2 dogs
I cannot recommend Second Nature enough. Zoe gives both my dogs so much care and attention. I have two German Shepherds who are extremely anxious around other dogs. Zoe accompanied me on dog walks to give practical help and advice for challenging situations! She is great at giving tips and tricks, training suggestions and food recommendations

Benji, Dawn & Paul

Terrier
We have really enjoyed the behaviour consultation process. Zoe has shown us how to deal with our dog’s problems. We now have the tools to carry on with his training. The walks with Zoe, in particular, have provided what we need to stop Benji’s chasing. We know it is going to be a long process

Ted, Rob and Michelle

Dog
Really pleased with the outcome and what an enjoyable experience meeting with you – Ted has calmed down a lot now! It’s great that I can cuddle Rob now without worrying! Ted is much calmer when people visit, but we’re still working on him tolerating strangers approaching me. Nonetheless, on the whole fantastic! Thank you

Gracie

Dog
Whilst Gracie is still an anxious dog, she has made incredible progress and if we are completely honest, more progress than we thought she could make. Gracie came to live with us from the Retired Greyhound Trust. Gracie was finding life very difficult as she was incredibly anxious and her inability to sleep through the

Echo

Dog
I do think that if we had not had help Echo wouldn’t be with us today, so this service has been fabulous! With the behaviour plan in place and lots of hard work from us as a family, we now have a more relaxed dog. Echo shows nervous aggression whenever people come near him.  The overall

Chip, James & Sarah

Dog
We found Zoe to be extremely knowledgeable and attentive when it came to talking us through the processes we needed to follow to get our little Yorkie under control. Very helpful after the home visit with follow-up emails and other offers of help to ensure we had all the support we needed. Would highly recommend

Riley & Paul

Dog
I must say the advice you gave me was excellent. I would without hesitation recommend you to anybody with a problem dog. The consultation process I found most useful in setting out the ground rules. I also found the literature to be most helpful for reference. Things have really improved with Riley on and off

Pebbles & Family

Puppy lying in grass
Pebbles is just wonderful!  Thank you ever so much for your help and support – we couldn’t believe the improvements with her after just one week. Now a few months later we are pleased to report that Pebbles has made remarkable progress – we have newfound confidence! When before she became extremely anxious when left

Trinity, Bella & Rachael

dogs
Zoe changed our lives for the better.  We can’t thank Zoe enough. My dogs had started to fight with each other for various reasons. Zoe spent hours with us trying to work out why and how to overcome the problem. Zoe put in hours of work and we put lots of hard work in too with

Dotty, Annie & Colin

Dalmation
We feel totally supported – Second Nature Behaviour are sticking with us on the journey! We are fostering our first rescue dog who had never been properly socialised with other dogs. Zoe assessed Dotty and produced a very thorough and professional report, which has been invaluable in giving us the confidence and the practical techniques

Brambles & Corinne

Dog
I trust them completely: what they don’t know about animals is not worth knowing. Their calmness and reassuring manner transfers to both dogs and owners. I have and will continue to recommend Second Nature Behaviour to any animal owner’s who need support and guidance.  They have been so helpful in sorting out my rescued loopy lurcher’s

Bubba, Karen & Gary

Dog
It was very helpful to speak to you. You offered some very good advice, most of which we have put into practice and we really are seeing results. As you say, it is an ongoing thing, so we still have a way to go, but we have found the whole process very positive and it

Alfie, Mary, Michael & Chris

Dog
We were a little apprehensive about going to the meeting with Zoe, but we shouldn’t have been as she made us feel at ease very quickly.  We were amazed at how quickly Alfie settled.  The suggestions Zoe made were easy to follow. Some of the things we were already doing and others just simple things

Ernie, Jennie, Ian & Alfie

Dog
We’ve been delighted with the service. You’ve tailored your approach specifically to our concerns and have always been available for advice and further support. We’ve noticed a huge improvement in Ernie already and have learned through you to recognise his signs of stress and when he needs to be left alone. We still have lots

Ozzy & Bev

Dog

I would happily recommend you to any owner with a dog-reactive dog.  Your set-up with stooge dogs is excellent.  I was very pleased to find you. You gave good advice for Ozzy’s situation and you supplied some very comprehensive written material to back it up. Many thanks, Bev  

Goldie & Lucy

Dog
Thank you so much for all your support with Goldie! The advice and training Zoe gave us has transformed our walks and made life much less stressful! To think that only a few months ago he used to lunge, bark, growl and basically go for anything he saw, and now whenever he sees anything he

Sophie, Chloe & Rosie

Dog

I wholeheartedly recommend Second Nature Behaviour. I have marvellous professional advice and support. Zoe is so committed to helping me and my dogs, Sophie and Chloe. Thank you SO much for your ongoing advice and support. I really feel we benefit enormously from all your expertise. Best, Rosie

Blaze, Laura & Glyn

Dog
Although it is still early days, Zoe has helped us feel more in control, thereby keeping Blaze in a happier place. She has given us the confidence to let him approach other dogs where appropriate. Walk times are getting to be more enjoyable and Blaze has made a new friend!  The service provided is excellent

Cocoa & Julia

Dog
I have been following your advice with Cocoa and we have noticed a difference in his behaviour already!! He’s still bonkers but our change in approach has hugely improved his behaviour.  Your advice for simple yet effective changes around the house is a life-saver and Cocoa is a lot less stressed too!  There is a

Bailey, Andrew & Denise

Dog
We found Zoe and her team to be extremely professional and knowledgeable, taking the time to listen to our concerns and offer practical and helpful advice. We have employed Second Nature Behaviour for our pet boxer dog, Bailey, on a couple of occasions due to some behavioural issues he was experiencing. Zoe visited us at

Dylan, Juliet & Carl

Dog
Zoe’s early input was so helpful at looking at Dylan’s night-time anxieties in a new way. Her ideas and strategies really worked! We understood that it was not a quick fix and we’ve had to take our time. Zoe gave us a long-term goal and we’ve got a better relationship with our dog in other

Frank & Lynne

GSD dog

You were fab and I couldn’t have asked any more of you. I think that your way of teaching gave me a better understanding of the way dogs think and enabled me to work better with Frank. Many thanks, Lynne

Buzz, Andy & Faye

Dog
We were very very happy with the service you guys gave us and have recommended you to several people. Buzz has made so much progress since we have seen you! Zoe from Second Nature was very knowledgeable about dog behaviour and has helped our dog Buzz to overcome several anxieties, as well as general training

Jessie, Charlotte & Dan

Dog
It was so lovely to meet you guys! Thank you so much for your help, you have such a kind attitude and have plenty of time for people! We have been practising the exercise you taught us and hey presto!! Jessie seems to be accepting dogs in a closer environment than ever before – speak

Yogi & Rupert

Dogs sitting together
You can tell Zoe is passionate about what she does and clearly loves animals. She is very thorough and is always on hand for advice. Zoe has helped tremendously – we still have some work to do, but we got to the bottom of both my dogs’ issues and from then was able to get

Murphy & Anna

Dog
Murphy was scared of the vets and generally a little OTT. Things are now going really well – amazing Zoe! Thank you for coming over and giving very sensible, practical advice. Murph now sits patiently on the mat by the back door while I get my shoes on, coat on and lead out. He also sits

Irene & Pauline

Collie
Irene used to be terrified of noises.  The service Zoe provided gave me the confidence and skills to make Irene more confident. Irene is doing really well now – so much that the vet emailed Zoe to say how much better she is. People who meet us in the mornings on our walk also comment

Kizzy, Gyp, Barry & Hilary

Bull Terrier
We have put a lot of Zoe’s advice into practice and Kizzy has turned into a lovely and very loving dog. Things with her and our older dog, Gyp, are much better and no further incidents. We continue to walk them together but without risk.  Both go to kennels when we have breaks where we

Alfie & Charley

dogs
Zoe is the kindest and the most considerate person – if you are looking for a professional pet behaviour therapist that loves animals look no further. Zoe is a top-class professional in her field with the results to prove it. Such a caring lady and nothing too much trouble even with telephone call out of

Don & Poppy

Dogs playing
With a few simple techniques, easily and clearly explained, and lots of consistent practice and hard work, we now have a significantly more relaxed household and two much calmer, happier dogs. We were referred to Zoe by our vets as one of our greyhounds was proving difficult to settle and was reactive to other dogs,

Bobby & Jayne

Dog
I have found your knowledge of dogs behaviour inspiring and it’s clear to see you have a real passion for dogs. Zoe is the best at what she does. Zoe has given me the confidence to tackle my dogs’ behaviour issues. I am now able to restrain my dog myself and make going to the vets

Cookie, Storm, Andy & Julie

Dog
Our girls, Cookie and Storm, suddenly started fighting with each other.  We are really happy with the time Zoe spent with us and the dogs. Zoe was very thorough when gathering information about their history and previous behaviour. It was obvious that she had a great understanding of dogs.  The plan Zoe sent through was

Bracken & Vivienne

Beagle
Thank you so much for all your help. Before meeting you we were at our wit’s end as to what to do with Bracken, but your time and advice has put us back in control. Bracken is much easier to take out for walks and he is much calmer in the house. We really are

Dexter & Dougie

Dogs
We went into our first visit with Zoe feeling anxious we may end up having to  rehome  one of our beloved Frenchies. Fast-forward 6 months – our dogs are happier (and better behaved!) than ever. They were being aggressive towards each other.  However, now we are finally back to a place where we can relax

Sadie, Julie and Mark

Beagle
You have done everything in a very compassionate and non-judgemental way; an approach that we have really appreciated. You have provided us with sound advice when we needed it most and have been very responsive and supportive in times of crisis.  You took time to understand the character of our dog and followed this with

Nala

Dog
If you’re looking for someone to sort out your pet’s behaviour, that you know it’s weird and don’t have a clue why they’re acting like they are, then contact Second Nature. Zoe has been amazing and gone the extra mile with us. From diagnosing our newfie with anxiety to putting into practice an action plan

Skye & Lynette

Dog
Zoe is a real dog lover who understands that life has to go on around the training. I have learned and am still learning so much from her to help me help my dog. I have been working with Zoe for some months now to help with my dog’s separation anxiety and I cannot recommend

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